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There are no children, no property, no debts. Just a plain uncontested divorce. How difficult is it? How much does a do-it-yourself cost? How much would a lawyer charge? Also do you know anything about online divorce?I am in NC if that makes a difference.

I met someone a few months back who said he had filed for divorce and in WI, you can look at records online to see. His case is not ‘friendly’ and I am curious how long this process takes? To actually get a hearing.. does it show up when you file or only after the divorce is complete?

i left my husband for domestic reasons that has been going on the entire 3 years we were together. i had to move to Flordia with my parents and he was put in jail. i was wanting to find out how i could get a divorce cheap, easy and online without having to go back to Georgia to take care of this matter. please only answer if you are serious. thanks for any help given

im married 2 abusive man.I was looking for just a friend 2 talk to.found this man.very sweet.we have talked on phone and on line 4 3 yrs.i love him,he says he loves me.i lied about my weight im 190.told him i got divorce and didn’t.This man has been on the phone with me through so many things.Hes been there 4 me as much as he could.I want so desperately to have a life with him,which he has asked me to marry him.If i tell the truth it will make him feel like a fool 4 believing me and will hurt him.Also he will not want me because of my weight and lies.Its 2 the point now,I dont care what happens to me.I just want 2 tell the truth but dont want to hurt him.Of course I hope that he can 4give me but the main thing is to tell this man the truth.How do I do that without making him feel like a fool 4 believing my lies.Is there any way he can forgive me,am i worth forgiving.

Geeky folks may actually find it rewarding to be able to retrieve Public Divorce Records free of charge from state agencies but the majority of us are not likely to be cut out for the task. In itself, government sources for public information has always tend to be a test of patience, not least if you’re researching State Divorce Records and all the more so if you are attempting to extract California Divorce Records in particular from the Office of Vital Records of California. In 2007, day-to-day operations at the former California Department of Health Services (CHDS) were reorganized under two new departments namely the Department of Health Care Services (DHCS) and the California Department of Public Health (CDPH) purportedly to better serve the community. Public records went under the charge of the CDPH. This service is offered through their Vital Records Office which reports into the Certificate and Licenses Unit. The Vital Records of California can only issue Certificates of California County Divorce Records that occurred between 1962 and June 1984. For divorces that date outside this time window, the records are only available at the very county offices where the divorce proceedings were heard or through non-governmental sources. This is quite disappointing for a state like California. The state is also one of the 4 states that do not keep track of its number of divorces. The other 3 are Colorado, Indiana and Louisiana. For all practical purposes, a Certificate of Record on divorce is only a gateway document at best. The information that is presented on it consists of just the names of the divorcing couple, the county at which the divorce is filed and the assigned court case number. It does not even indicate if the subject divorce was ever finalized in the courts. On top of it, the waiting period could stretch up to 3 years although the quoted average processing time is 6 months and a fee of $13 is charged. The centre stage of California Divorce Records is the California Divorce Decrees. They can be obtained solely from the Superior Court in the county where the divorce was filed and granted. Besides the basic information pertaining to the divorce, it is to principally state the settlement ruling of the separation such as asset division, alimony and children custody, support and visitation. All divorces, contested or uncontested and fault or no-fault will be issued with an official decree upon its finalization by the courts. Free Divorce Records are often intertwined with marriage records, be they public or private source. Even in some official contexts, the terms ‘divorce’ and ‘marriage dissolution’ are interchangeably employed. This is because these two categories of public records are intrinsically connected. As such, it’s common for divorce records to be produced as related information in a marriage records search and vice-versa. Some commercial record providers offer them in 2-in-1 package. With a population of 36 million and 58 counties, it can get laborious contending with government procedures in a California Divorce Records Search. Fortunately, unlike state repositories which are not linked, commercial databases are crossed and networked. That makes life a whole lot easier for people searching for State Of California Divorce Records. They come in particularly handy in certain states where this public service is slack which California is clearly one in this regard.

1. Won’t return phone calls. I’ve had this one leveled against me once. This happened after about two months of not getting a cost deposit and when I checked my records I found I had e-mailed the parties back at 10 P.M after receiving a message at about 8 P.M. This resulted in me asking them to get another attorney, everyone knows setting up conference calls is tricky.

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Getting a Divorce

There are two ways by which a person can handle his divorce:

DIY Divorce:

Do it yourself (DIY) divorce is one where there is no intrusion of lawyers. The formalities are taken care by the couple themselves. They fill up the requisite documents; submit these at the court, obtain the decrees and part their ways. This method is becoming increasingly accepted among the couples who have no difference of opinions regarding division of their properties and child custody. This method also helps them avoid huge fees charged by high street solicitors.

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I said “never married” because it was 8 years ago and was only a 2 year marriage. I look young and didn’t want people to think I just got out of the marriage with drama and alimony etc. so, I make the mistake of marrying young and it’s on my “record” forever? Doesn’t seem right. So, I’m going to meet this girl this weekend and would like to be upfront with her. what would you do and how would you do it?