Article by Polly Collins

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I’m sure you are familiar with the situation where you will see a girl in front of you and your balls begin to ache with lust yet your body seems otherwise paralyzed to do anything. This is no unfamiliar occurrence for many men so you are not alone. You wish you knew how to talk to girls yet you didn’t know what to say. Well let me tell you…

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Since early December 2009, I’ve been chatting (YM, skype) with a guy whose divorce is in process. At first we were only chatting for the sake of passing the time and agreed that we will remain as online buddies, and will never exchange phone numbers (We live in different countries). But as we find ourselves becoming closer and attached with one another, he admitted his feelings for me and has given me even more special attention. He consistently called me up and there are even times when he spends the whole night just talking with me. When I admitted that I too was becoming too close and attach to him, he then told me that we are special friends, and he was THE special friend of mine. But when he started talking about coming in my home country to visit me, I stopped him and said that we shouldn’t be talking about that. He agreed that there will be no talks of coming over unless it is near. This divorcee guy is also aware of another guy communicating with me who is romantically interested. He directly expressed his jealousy over this second guy. Nevertheless, I didn’t directly admit how I feel for him. We continued sharing our insights and getting to know ourselves some more.

But just recently, when he attended a get-together among his friends, he admitted to me about his plan of going back to his wife. He said sometime next month, they are expected to go to the judge and finalize their divorce which is long overdue (the wife wouldn’t sign the divorce papers, and so he assumes his wife wants to go back to him). But nevertheless, he wants us to continue being online buddies. With this final decision coming from him, should I continue talking with this guy? Somehow I feel hurt, but I didn’t tell him. He still considers us as THE special friends and I feel apprehensions in discontinuing the online friendship because I don’t want him to think that I’m only interested in him in a romantic level and guess how I feel for him. Thoughts?

im married 2 abusive man.I was looking for just a friend 2 talk to.found this man.very sweet.we have talked on phone and on line 4 3 yrs.i love him,he says he loves me.i lied about my weight im 190.told him i got divorce and didn’t.This man has been on the phone with me through so many things.Hes been there 4 me as much as he could.I want so desperately to have a life with him,which he has asked me to marry him.If i tell the truth it will make him feel like a fool 4 believing me and will hurt him.Also he will not want me because of my weight and lies.Its 2 the point now,I dont care what happens to me.I just want 2 tell the truth but dont want to hurt him.Of course I hope that he can 4give me but the main thing is to tell this man the truth.How do I do that without making him feel like a fool 4 believing my lies.Is there any way he can forgive me,am i worth forgiving.

I’m a stay at home mom and am looking for jobs right now. My husband has been working on some freelance work since he graduated from the graduate school, but never got a stable job. We had a 1 year old child. Right now we don’t have anything other than debts, no health insurance, no enough income, no house (we live with his parents right now). I am thinking of divorce but am afraid to do so because I don’t know how to support my Child and myself before I find a job. I have no friends or family around who can help me out right now. If I file divorce, will he have to pay child support even though he don’t have a job right now? Or should I wait until either of us find a job? But the thing is that he doesn’t want me find a job and I am so busy to clean the house and take care of the baby that I don’t really have time to look for jobs either. However, I am afraid the longer I stay in this marriage the more dependent I will be, since we live with his parents, you know, when we argue, he yells me to get out the house because he knows I have no place to go. He also wants the baby. He knows I cannot let him have the baby so he always threaten me with keeping the baby by himself. I don’t know what to do… please give me some suggestion… Thank you!

Honestly, I think I know the answer, it is just so hard! We have been together since high school, married for seven years and have a 14 month old beautiful baby girl. It is a few issues:

1. I am the primary care taker. I work full time (he works part time), I cook, clean, take care of the baby, organize / mail the bills, etc. All this while he plays online video games.

2. He plays online video games – like an addiction. Wakes up in the morning to play, plays on his luch break, plays at night. Life revolves around that. If I want to make plans for us, I hope he doesn’t have something schedule that night with his online gaming friends. Sometimes if I need him to hold the baby while I…say…get dinner ready, he might say no because he is doing something important on the game and he tells me to put her in her crib or play pin (where she will cry) but it’s okay for babies to cry sometimes he says.

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Complicated laws entangle the divorcing couple into legal hassles and aggravate their unhappy state. Unable to solve through the judicial issues, separating spouses get forced to hire expensive solicitors and fight out long-drawn court battles. This compels the entire family into the court room. Children and other relatives get sucked into the case giving testimony. Moreover, hiring divorce lawyers drains the already sparse family resources. Families slip into extreme economic difficulty following the separation.

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In a divorce, fathers’ rights lawyers often prove to be a major asset to fathers who would otherwise know little about the rights they have during a divorce. It is typical for the children in a divorce to live with the mother, as the mother is often awarded custody. Men who want to know more about their rights and desire to use those rights should consider hiring a fathers’ rights lawyer to help fight on their side.

Challenging times are part of divorce, so going through divorce proceedings solo can only add to the stress and emotional toll that divorce may take on men. Facing an ex-spouse and dividing possessions, assets and property is a hard job to do. There are several factors that must be hammered out before the two sides can reach a mutual agreement that is fair and just on both parties. Attorneys are experienced and trained in helping clients work out an agreeable solution to their problems so that both sides can move on with their lives.

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At Schreier & Housewirth we believe it is our responsibility to educate our clients about what they should, and should not expect from their attorney. We find that such an education leads us to have more positive relationships with our clients as they know what to expect from their attorney. Whether your case involves child custody, divorce, property division, cps, or other family related matters, a good family attorney should be there to help you. Here is what you should expect from your divorce lawyer:

An attorney should listen to you and express to you an understanding of your situation and particular needs; A lawyer should be able to articulate the law to you in easy to understand language and clearly explain your options to you; A divorce lawyer should be familiar with the practices of the family court judges in both Dallas County and in Tarrant County; A divorce attorney should be accessible during the course of the divorce and should be responsive to your questions and concerns about divorce in Tarrant County; He / she should consult with you before making any decisions of a critical nature; A lawyer should let you make informed decisions about your case rather than using your case as a forum for their own personal issues and ambitions; A divorce attorney should protect you and your children from harmful conduct by your spouse; A divorce lawyer should be more than a “cheerleader”, he should help you accurately assess both the strengths and weaknesses of your divorce case; An attorney should maintain a professional demeanor at all times and not fall prey to anger or other emotions; A divorce attorney should encourage you to seek a peaceful resolution to your case if circumstances permit; An attorney should be able to clearly explain his fee structure to you and use your funds wisely. Read the rest of this entry

OK here goes im married 10 yrs sep for 3 1/2 of that came back to him in aug 2006 and things arent working for me still the same issues. Now hes working out of state. And we technically are living in the same house even though hes not here because of work. I want to file divorce. How should I do this file while hes gone or wait till he comes home. He has no idea that I want a divorce as far as he knows everything is fine..But I cant handle being accused everytime i leave the house for cheating i have never cheated on him so is this his own insecurity…Someone please help me on this…my main question is do this while hes away or wait till he comeback….thats where im stumped….and should of move and leave his stuff at the house (we r just renting) or should i just stay for the kids sake and move his stuff out…..O my am i confused on this anyone has any advice plz let me know……???CONFUSED???

A video from Divorce-Online.Co.Uk explaining how to get a an uncontested divorce in the UK and why you should use this divorce service as opposed to a traditional Solicitor/Lawyer.